Monday, December 22, 2008

What's so hard about it?


I currently have two problems. First, I have trouble telling people how I feel. I don't know why but it somehow makes me feels vulnerable. Second, I have people who have trouble telling me how they feel and make my life a living puzzle.

Thinking about something and saying it out loud is a whole different thing. Just because you think of it or assume something about it doesn't makes it real. Assumption is remotely a fact. There's no single human being in this whole wide world that can actually read minds. (Uh,no offense Edward Cullen) Hence, we need to tell others or at least ask . Don't assume. Don't make your own conclusion. Don't do something stupid without knowing things for sure.

Say, if you like a girl. Just because she replied your smile doesn't mean she has the same feelings towards you. But there's also a slight chance that she is totally in love with you. So, you need to find out by telling her. Paham?

Giving silent treatment and going all sulky when you are angry doesn't make things any better. It makes things worst. Sometimes people doesn't even know why you are angry. Tell them if they hurt your feelings. Sometimes words act better than action.

Sometimes it's a comfort to know. Even though you have say it thousands times before. Like telling your mum how much you miss her.

I think telling people how you feel makes the world a better place to live. Though it's a skill that I really need to work on. Hold no grudge. Spread the love. :D

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

true.. but yea.. being vulnerable can really suck sometimes :|

Anonymous said...

TRUE!
btol x tekaan saye..post ini ditujukan kepada 2pihak..??
plz say its true!!

well..i do hope those two will read this, esp yang the angry one. but i wonder whether that person even bother to read blog. aish. bilakah dunia ini akan kembali ceria??? sila jawab cik shahirah.

btw..i can read people minds sumtimes, tru their actions. btol, xtipu!juz sumtimes i dont feel confident with my insticnt, but it always turn out to be true.huhu. sounds scary?

Dreamy Damsel said...

nad - kan kan mmg xbst.

whitishpink - huu. satu pihak je. yg angry tuh. lagi satu tu cam reminder for myself. nampakny dunia xkan kembali ceria buat mase nih. the angry one tuh mcm xde progress je. penat2.ish. the other pihak u were referring tuh lulus je~ huhu

Anonymous said...

hurm...
musykil2..
apekah maksud lulus bagi pihak lagi satu??????
sila beri penerangan yang jelas lagi terang dan nyata..(ni bkn hukum izhar halqi ke?)

Dreamy Damsel said...

hahaha. nanti lah saye terangkan